- I want to make a difference rather than a living.
- I want to fulfill my wife’s every wish.
- I want to glorify god through my serving my wife in the way that christ served the church.
- I want to treat my wife to a first class lifestyle.
- I want to be accused of being newlyweds on our 50th anniversary and beyond.
- I want to be giddy in love, flirtation, and joy.
- I want to see joy in my wife’s eyes all the time.
- I want to help her to see joy in herself, and in the world.
- I want to create vivid memories for my family and for others.
- I want to treat my extended family to their wildest dreams.
- I want to treat friends and family to multiple once-in-a-lifetime experiences.
- I want to help others achieve their goals.
- I want to be financially independent.
- I want to finance worthwhile projects.
- I want to view money as we view oxygen (= having more than enough to do anything I choose to do on a particular day).
- I want to make decisions because they’re the right things to do rather than the fiscally appropriate choice.
- I want to have absolute, 100% integrity.
- I want to have supreme health and live vibrantly into old age (100+).
- I want to blow God’s mind with how I react to challenges and opportunities.
- I want to be available to God to be used to answer the prayers of others.
- I want to roll over and snuggle with my wife instead of roll out to a job.
- I want to be available to life and the experiences that are only accessible by having a schedule that only I control.
- I want to give gifts that shock people.
- I want to treat people better than their own family.
- I want to have all of the toys and fun things I fancy.
- I want to tip $100 on a cup of coffee, regularly.
- I want to SCUBA dive over a 30’+ king crab ball.
- I want to travel via airport roulette (randomly pick a destination and go, without bags, plans, etc.)
- I want to create a legacy for the Bennett family.
- I want to change the world.
- I want to lead my family with confidence and purpose.
Now go back up to the top and replace the word, “want” with the more appropriate word, “will”.
Where is your list?
-cb